YOU DON'T GROW WHEN YOU'RE COMFORTABLE

“Let it hurt, then let it go.” – r.h. Sin

This is something I think about often, mostly because it’s something that has been such a struggle for me. I allow things to rattle me, to devastate the foundation of my being. Some days I’m a mountain and other days I’m a fucking staged demolition. I am practicing the art of letting things go; feeling the emotion, learning from my mistakes and decisions, and moving on. Being present. Understanding that I cannot control what has happened, or what will happen; I can only live in this moment.

And I want this moment to be worth it.

I am learning to be okay with being uncomfortable and uncertain. All I need to be certain about is myself.

I know what I want and I know what I deserve, and I refuse to settle for anything less than that.

lifeasha bailey